Dear Billy,
I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to take a moment to share some thoughts as we prepare for our upcoming move. Change is never easy, especially when it feels like it might deepen old wounds. I know you’ve faced abandonment issues, and I want you to know that my heart goes out to you in this time of transition.
It's important to acknowledge that these feelings are valid. The fear of being left behind can be overwhelming. But, Billy, I firmly believe that you have more control over this situation than it might seem.
I've seen firsthand how Milly has influenced dynamics within the family. Her attempts to create distance and control have left scars, not just on you, but on those who care about you deeply. Julie, too, has been affected, and it's been a significant source of concern and contention between us. It’s painful to see how Milly's behavior has impacted your relationship with her.
However, I’ve always encouraged Julie to see through this, to recognize the patterns and break free from them. The bond between you and her has been weakened by Milly’s influence, but it is not beyond repair. The bond between a father and daughter is unique and precious, and it deserves every chance to flourish, free from undue influence. Julie has made strides in improving her relationship with you, and I truly hope this continues to grow despite the challenges.
Billy, you have the strength to overcome these feelings of abandonment. You are not defined by the actions of others but by the love and resilience you carry within you. Please know that our move does not change how much we care about you. Distance can be bridged with effort and intention, and I am committed to ensuring that our bond remains strong.
Let’s focus on the positive connections in our lives, the ones that bring light and warmth. Together, we can navigate these changes and come out stronger on the other side. Remember, you are not alone, and you are always in our hearts.
With much respect and care,
Alan